Her namesake died out long ago, but her writing is alive with manic energy that lights up the blogosphere with 1.21 gigawatts of fun.
She is Rara and she will crush you with her unique brand of tea and madness.
Her blog is a joy to explore – I often just click away without even reading, that’s how cool her cyber-pad is – and it contains some of the best work being done by any writer of any caliber today. Rara can go toe -to-toe with the Big Boys and Girls – and walk away with her head held high.
But enough of my
1) If you could be any animal for a day, what would you be? (Obviously, anything dino-related is verboten!)
If it was absolutely just for one day, I’d like to be a simple household cat to see the world through the eyes of my beloved friends.
2) Yours is a heart dipped in poetic verse, but who is your favorite poet?
Depending on the day, it always seems to be a toss-up between Hafiz, Shel Silverstein, Pablo Neruda, Shakespeare, and Bukowski. And though I wouldn’t call them favorites in the traditional sense, I’m most apt to quote from Ella Wheeler Wilcox or e.e. cummings so I can’t leave them out of any favorites list either!
3) The best thing about being a geek is…
Love.
There’s often very little connecting one geek to another– the difference between a Trekker and a Tolkein geek is the difference between Kobe steak and Kobe Bryant. But still– there’s a bond between us all because we know what it is to be lovingly devoted to an idea, place, time, hope, or hero.
A short story here: Nearly 10 years ago, I was working at a hotel that frequently had celebrity guests. Most walked in and out without any hullabaloo. One day though, Julie Newmar strolled in — nearly 70 years old, and still astoundingly beautiful. The boys I worked with were tripping over themselves to help her. The grumpy elderly hotel concierge had a huge smile on his face. A family on vacation with all manner of sports and kayak stuff looked her over and asked, “I don’t get it, did she used to be somebody?”
A little girl, born decades after the release of that 1960 television series responded, “She IS somebody. That. is. Catwoman. She’s my hero!”
See, geek love doesn’t die. It just gets pulled into the next generation.

SORRY, LADIES, BUT THE FANBOY IN ME COULDN’T RESIST…
4) This feature is all about making a positive impact on people through blogging; you’re one of the best and brightest lights on WordPress. In your humble opinion, which qualities make for a successful blogger?
Aw, thank you kindly.
By defining “successful” as “finding joy in your work and being sustained by the goodwill of a well-matched community” – I would say:
(1) Make your house a home. Emphasize regularity of voice, content type, schedule or visual appeal.
(2) Be brave. Ask one more question than you normally would. Make the first move. Tell the story that’s hard to tell.
(3) Be as kind and generous to yourself as you are to your readers and fellow bloggers. The world won’t end if you miss a day, or misspell a word, or forget a link. Be as grateful for yourself as we are for you.
(I don’t know About you, but that answer gave me chills. Awesome!)
5) Besides your artificial dino-skin, what do you like to wrap your human flesh in? In other words, what are you wearing? (And no, that didn’t sound any less creepy in my head, but I went with it anyway.)
Haha! Picture attached.
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Do I have the words to follow such positively-charged brilliance? I think not.
My thanks to Rara for showing me how its done. See you in the lobby, folks…
Great post and interview! Rarasaur is one of my favs!
You’re marvelous, you really are. Thanks for being so supportive! 🙂
I feel the same about you! ♥
“The best thing about being a geek is love.”
Love this. Love Rara. Love you too, Hook.
(I want to be Cat Woman when I grow up. Not a cat lady, but Cat Woman 🙂 )
We love you, too, Sheena… and I’m confidently speaking for Hook because, who wouldn’t love you? 🙂
Great answers 😉 I think I’d go for a ‘cat’ as well… and those clothes are awesome. Is there *anything* Rara is not perfect at?!
Aw, thanks, Pix! Truth be told, I’m a fashion disaster, but my husband and my best friends help out and keep me looking somewhat “on purpose”. In fact, when Dave first met me, I was wearing and oversized hot pink sweater, olive green corduroy pants, a paper crown, and a silver cape. 😀
Hahahaha well clearly it was a look you should have stuck to if it worked…
I still rock the cape and crown, 😀 I think even the memory of the pink sweater still gives Dave nightmares… 😀
“there’s a bond between us all because we know what it is to be lovingly devoted to an idea, place, time, hope, or hero.”
Rara just articulated for me how I came to embrace my geekdom. I’m watching my son evolve into one, but a Proud and very Cool one, and I love it.
There aren’t enough words to describe how much I love Rara, and I already did it over on TwinDaddy’s blog, so I’ll just shut up now.
I love you & Little Dude, Samara– and I’m glad we share a geek-love-bond. There’s nothing quite like it! xo!
No one ever has to apologize for posting a picture of Julie Newmar. She is the ultimate.
Julie Newmar = Best ever. Rawr!
A delightful interview. Rara is a rare jewel e.v.e.r.y.w.h.e.r.e. she goes. 😀
Tess, darling lady, you’re everywhere! I love seeing your wisdoms and dots everywhere I go, 😀
I cannot lie. 😉
I have extolled Rara til my heart’s content and still had more to say when I’m finished. The bottom line is this: WordPress is a better place because she is here.
Awwwwwwwww. *DINOSIZEDHUGS*
Yay!
Excellent read. And yes, her blog is awesome 😉
Hook has a knack for these interviews, doesn’t he? 🙂
Yes he is 🙂
Lovely interview. She is just so… adorable.
Aw, thanks, 😀
Wonderful!!! Following this amazing brained woman!
That’s perfect, because I saw John Cusack in a speedo. We’re clearly fated for each other! 😀
ooooooo….I’d much rather have seen Cusack!! Thanks for the follow Rara!!!
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I loves me the Rara!!
I loves me the Ruta!! *hugs*
SWAK!
“Make your house a home.” I like it. That’s a fine mantra for any blogger.
I really do believe so– food, sports, life, writing, parenting, or Thanksgiving dresses on non-Thanksgiving– whatever you are offering, people should feel comfy enough to sit at your table. You have a warm and friendly home, Cutter. 😀
Except for the bodies chained up in the basement.
No socks?
But, but, but… socks are awesome!! 😛
(Go Team Marvel!)
Your call-out of “love” being the best thing about being a geek is spot on. I wouldn’t have thought of it like that, but it is perfect.
Socks suffocate my toes. They’re literally toe murderers. (And, let’s face it, if you had a serial toe killer on your hands, you’d want batman on your side. Go team DC!)
That’s silly. Socks are like a comfy blanket that cuddles your toes all day long. But, a blanket with a backbone, protecting your toes from all manner of evil, like, say, The X-men. (Go Team Marvel!)
If I could be any creature for a day, I’d be a Rarasaur so I could see what it is like to view the world with such love and magic and also to experience toes of particularity.
Aww, love you much, Aussa! My toes of particularity drive others crazy. They’re why I don’t like the beach! 🙂
I sure do love me some Rara! I love that picture of you and your swanky blazer! Great blogging advice!
Haha, thanks, Lily! I’m quite fond of all my blazers. 🙂
This is just fabulous! I love Rara and her magical words and I’m looking forward to the day that we can twirl together for real 🙂
Oh yes, Tahira– come to California for twirling and tea! Your sparkle would brighten this place up!
I just love HER! I won an original print by her husband, who is also very talented! Great Guest Post “HOOK”! You sure know how to pick’em….*Catherine* 🙂 🙂
PS…When I seen the little CAT PIC, I thought it might be ALL ABOUT ME!…..LOL..*Cat*
Cat! Thank you– I also think my hubby is quite talented, but perhaps I’m biased. 😀 *muah!
You have to love and admire somebody who, despite the fact we have never, not once, agreed has had me guest. I had her guest too, but that’s neither here nor there..
Rawr.
Not entirely true, Duncan! (See? There we go disagreeing again. 🙂 ) — We both believe in waking up and getting stuff done, and that hippos are entirely worth their own blog topics. 😉
Damn. Now I have to agree with you, and then we’ll have agreed and we’ll both have been wrong forever. Dang.
I’ll have to bite the buller hewre with the hippos since I’ve done at least two posts about them. They go Rawr! as well.
Wait… hippos really say rawr?
The males have very bad anger management issues, and they’re tooled up for the job. Their canine teeth may be up to 20”, and they have jaws that can crush a whole white cabbage without even slowing down. To ward off enemies, a hippo may yawn, scoop water with its mouth, shake its head, rear up, lunge, roar, grunt, chase, and make a loud wheezing sound, all of which are threat displays. It’s a lot like the Yates’s in Harlow on a Saturday night. If all that posturing doesn’t work, the males will fight, and they inflict a lot of damage when they do. It’s not a half-hearted shoving match. It’s a proper full-on pagga, and if you get caught up in it you are in deep, deep trouble. Again, much like Harlow on a Saturday night.
From my blog http://nobodysreadingme.wordpress.com/2013/05/20/how-not-to-get-killed-by-a-hippopotamus/
For some reason I imagined this as a gurgling sound… like a really loud Tribble. 🙂
Anyone who is a nerd and a tea drinker is good in my book. Thanks for finding all of these great bloggers to follow, Hook!
Tea-drinking nerds for the win! Great to meet you, Jonny!
This convergence of bloggers was as awesome as expected, which is a delight because they were not low ones. Thank you both for the smiles and food for thought!
I especially love the thoughts on the bond of geekdom. Yes!
I’m happy to be bonded with you, Deborah! Hurrah for geekdom!
I do not know where I am going to find the time to read all of the wonderful bloggers you have introduced dear Hookey….but it is so very cool to add yet another one to my every growing list! 🙂
Rock on~
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Ahhh, this was awesome! The cat and Julie Newmar were perfect addictions, and made me smile a mile wide. Thank you, for such a lovely post. I’m so honored to have been able to take part!
I always thought no one did Cat Woman like Julie! Rara you are everywhere my friend!! Wow, I’m out of breath trying to keep up, but smiling all the way. Oh, and socks suck. Even with living in Canada I do NOT wear socks! They smother my toes. They bind me.
Well Hook, you did a bang up job here! 🙂
It’s been a busy week for certain, 🙂 I’m glad you agree on the sock-smothering…. it’s a real thing! 😀 And yep, isn’t Hook amazing??
Well, what could I add here that hasn’t already been said. I’ve only recently found rara, and I’ve been Hooked only for a short while longer, but you two are amongst my favorite writers and are proven a couple of the biggest and supportive energies in the blogsphere. High fives for the good guys!
“High fives for good guys” needs to be a t-shirt! 😀
Let’s do it rara – we’re sure to sell at least two of ’em. We’ll be rich! 😀
Haha, well, maybe not rich, but at least we can play at being twins. 😀
What fun! I never thought of being a cat, I always figured I’d go with a fish or bird. Something that can travel in three dimension= up/down, left/right, forward/backwards. I don’t really consider jumping or digging a hole so much as traveling. But a cat, hmm… Yes to be a cat would be delightful. Your outfit is great, love it!
Thanks Hook, Rara. 🙂
I actually don’t like water much (see: particular toes), and I’m not a huge fan of birds– though I love the perspective of their dimensionality. I’m still a land animal, though– if the question had asked for a longer time frame, though, I would have gone with a monkey or rat. I’m a social critter! Thanks for the outfit love!
This is a great feature I’m one of her readers and always like to check in on her. Good to see a little bit more insight behind the dinosaur. Great feature Hook! Awesome answers to the successful blogging questions. 🙂
😀 Thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed the advice. I know for certain that you live it out– welcoming people into your life, with laughter and chapstick-love. 😀
Chapstick-Love is the best 🙂 Glad you enjoy it 🙂
Rara,
I’ve been offline all day, but your “interview” came out great, didn’t it?
Thanks again!
It did– you are awesome! Thank you for your generosity!
It always sounds better in your head… Damn that.
Rara’s answer to the “what makes a successful blogger” question is PERFECTION. This is why she’s one of the best out there.
My responses in order: Wow! Yay! Aww, that’s so nice. Jen is so nice. I’m slayed by the niceness. DAVE, JEN LOVES ME. 🙂
The best thing about being a geek is… Love.
I could use some more, because our local and ONLY convention is coming in 20 days, 4 hours, and I’m not sure if I’m ready. As I’m in a small “emerging area”, I have gotten VERY fed up with huge swaths of our local gaming community. I’m going because Princess asked and I’m deciding to do cosplay with her.
Doubtful you’d come up to southeastern Washington to help us out, but… I need *something* to not give great numbers of people evil looks.
You’re so close to where I grew up that many of my friends will probably be there. Just walk around asking people if they know a dinosaur… 😉 Haha! I find that I have better luck in large crowds if I remember that their actions and presence were usually motivated by love. It’s just a matter of figuring out what love– and how it connects to my love. 🙂 Good luck, Jak… it’s nice of you to do that for Princess! 🙂
Hmm… it’s possible… I’d have to ask again and again, though.
It’s not necessarily the large crowds… it’s that I’ve met with some of the smaller groups attending, and I’ve had REALLY bad experiences. People acting petty, inconsiderate, stuff like that. And I’m nervous, because I’m very tempted to tell some of them off, because some really were quite mean.
Geek love is true love. Nicely done, Hook. This Rarasaur is pretty cool.
Oh yes, it’s absolutely true love! This Trent Lewin guy is pretty cool, too, Hook– this blog is obviously the place to be. 🙂
Yeah I agree, this Hook fellow – being Canadian and all – is cool. That Trent Lewin guy… also Canadian.
To The Hook and to Rara in all her RAWR Splendor – the thing about Rara is there is always something you discover you didn’t know. Thanks to the Hook for giving us more. Best ~ HuntMode
Hunty, yay! You are splendorific in your kindness! 🙂
How awesome !
These 5X5’s are all truly awesome! 😀
Rara truly does emulate light and benevolent forces in the blogosphere and I can only imagine what a blessing it is to be her friend in the real world. ❤️
How kind! xo! Come by for tea anytime you want a real-world Rara experience, 🙂 It’s not all that exciting, but I promise the tea is good. 🙂
Rara, thank you for offering this unique view into your perspective. As you know, I have only been following for a brief period, but have enjoyed the view so far. Please take care, Bill
Thank you, Bill, it’s been MARVELOUS getting to know you. xo!
Rara, you’re so byooteefull! Silly me, I thought you were a little green dinosaur.
Loved your answers, even though I’m a sock thug 4 life.
Awww, thanks darling Nicki! I’ve been known to transform into a fire-breathing dinosaur from time to time, but now I try to keep my inner dino to a mere shadowy presence!
My hubby was all about the socks when I met him… but with enough nagging, even the thuggiest sock lover can be converted to a free footer! 🙂
My husband wears those weird toe shoes. Gah!
Ha! Those are awesome! It’s the perfect shoe for an anti-socker!
Great interview! 🙂
Thank you, Lynette! 😀
Free footing… live by it! Drives my family nuts though, when I do it in the winter! Where Rara goes… I follow; I know there will be sunshine and fun.
Thank you, Dawn, for being a fellow free-footer and for popping by! 😀
It was freezing here today, and everyone was asking why my feet were naked… Uh, why wouldn’t they be? 😉
Haha! Love it! As long as you keep healthy, you might as well be comfortable. 🙂
And my husband would stress: naked feet do not lead to colds, germs do. 😉
Absolutely! But depending on how cold, naked feet could lead to hypothermia. 🙂
Right! Got it… not *that* cold.
I would argue that we could steal the answer for the best thing about being a geek for the question the best thing about being a blogger. Love the advice in how to be a successful blogger, Rara. In all those tips I could see self-compassion.
Great interview, Hook. Love the back of your book. {{hugs}} to both of you, Kozo
😀 Love is the answer to oh-so-many questions. 🙂 Thanks for popping by, Kozo– and yep, isn’t the back of the Hook’s book fabulous? 😀
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Loved this! Great interview and I truly appreciate your comments about what makes a great blog. 🙂
Congrats on being hooked?
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I’m behind in my reader, finally got to this interview and lo and behold-it’s one of my favorite bloggers Rara! Thanks Hook for the great questions, and Rara, you rock!